Hypnobirthing

1 hr

£75

Online or In-person

Hypnotherapy during pregnancy & childbirth

Hypnobirthing is the use of hypnotherapy techniques to relax the mother-to-be during labour and birth.

If you are a first-time mother-to-be, television portrayals of births can often reinforce all the negative scare stories your female family and friends have told you about. Yet the birth of your baby need not be scary or painful, and many cultures recognise this. Hypnobirthing can help you to reconnect with your feminine wisdom by allowing you to go with the flow. You can then experience the birth of your baby in a calm and relaxed environment, no matter where you are.

The hypnotherapist might teach you self-hypnosis so that you can manage your own delivery or, very occasionally, they may attend the birth with you. In most situations you have a few sessions with the hypnotherapist before being able to go it alone.

Most hypnotherapy sessions are split into two distinct parts: ‘the talky bit’ and hypnosis. In hypnobirthing, the talking bit will help you to understand the birthing process and how hypnotherapy can help. The length of your hypnotherapy session could vary from 30 – 90 minutes. An initial consultation will generally be held prior to your hypnobirthing sessions. This is to agree the aims and goals of your treatment, to discuss any symptoms and to give you a guide as to the number of sessions required. This will vary depending on the client. However, it is likely to be around 4 sessions for a straightforward birth or more if there is any previous trauma or phobia to deal with.

Real experiences: See what clients are saying

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5.0
Based on 18 reviews
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Sarah P.
14:12 13 Dec 24
Jenny was amazing throughout my whole experience. She has a wonderful calming nature and I can honestly say the hypnotherapy worked for me. I would 100% recommend Jenny to everyone.
icylogan 1.
16:39 17 Aug 24
Jenny was amazing. I chose Jenny because of her excellent reviews with patients with depression and life worries. I was at first sceptical about zoom meetings but this proved to be one of the best decisions I have ever made . As for the zoom meetings they were great and always on time. And Jenny was always accommodating. I highly recommend her to others facing similar challenges
Bob B.
15:23 14 Aug 24
Jenny has helped me tremendously in my time of need Jenny is one to one and always there for you she is caring and considerate and I would recommend her to anyone she has a wonderful talentKeep up the good work 😊
wendy L.
17:39 13 Aug 24
I have been to a few counsellors over the years and had decided that what little I had achieved seeing them was all I could hope for.Someone recommended Jenny to me, and I thought, what have I got to lose?I found her to be a very friendly person who put me at ease straight away.I had about six appointments with Jenny and have come away, feeling so much more confident and a much stronger person.
Jack M.
17:28 20 Feb 24
Jennys work has helped improve my quality and outlook toward life, helping me towards beating my addictions and improving my mental and physical health. Anyone struggling with panic attacks etc, also anyone suffering with insomnia i would highly recommend. this is the first time I’ve slept naturally for over 15 years.
Chris B.
17:40 30 Dec 23
I’m so pleased that I went to Jenny for weight loss. She was very professional and helped me with my mindset. I have lost over 2stone so far and continuing to lose more. I would have no worries about returning if I have any other issues to resolve.
Louise W.
16:57 05 Jul 23
I had a fantastic therapeutic experience with Jenny and highly recommend her to anyone wishing to address any kind of issue, behaviour, habit/addiction - or simply for self-care.In six sessions she worked very effectively and empathetically with me to kick-start a process of change that I believe will be long-lasting. She provided a safe and wonderfully relaxing space to undertake this work - and at the end of each session I felt not only empowered but as though I was walking on air!Thank you, Jenny! 🙏🏻
Paul H
16:39 06 Oct 21
Jenny has helped me cope with some big changes in my life and overcome self-doubt and lack of self-confidence to start afresh, make correct and considered decisions and significantly reduce the stress and anxiety I was under. Jenny was very clear in her approach and messaging and got me focusing on positives, whilst recognising the behaviours which were causing stress. I have no hesitation giving a 5 star review and would highly recommend Jenny to anyone with similar feelings of anxiety, and a lack of self-confidence as she can effectively help you overcome these.
Kathryn W.
10:43 02 Jun 21
Jenny is a highly committed, knowledgeable and effective practitioner who takes great care to work with her clients until they have reached a good situation. I recommend whole-heartedly.
Helen W.
16:28 21 May 21
After almost two years of trying to find the right support to help my daughter with her severe anxiety, we decided to try Jenny’s services. Within a matter of weeks, Jenny had helped her to turn things around completely and we now have our happy and confident daughter back. Jenny is friendly, welcoming and professional and put us at ease from the outset. I cannot recommend her highly enough.
Suzanne W.
16:36 09 Dec 20
Jenny has helped my daughter with her chronic insomnia, which in turn was causing migraines. We've just cancelled her next appointment as my daughter felt she didn't need it. She's sleeping so much better, is much more relaxed about going to sleep and is also more positive generally. The migraines are reducing all the time. I really can't thank Jenny enough or recommend her enough!
Linda H.
10:04 17 Oct 20
Jenny was a huge help to our teenage daughter, who was suffering with extreme anxiety. She couldn't eat, sleep, and was missing school. She was a shadow of her usual self. Jenny helped her to cope with her anxiety and turned her life around. She is now doing really well, and managed to get through her exams and start college. Occasionally she still gets anxiety, but manages this easily by using the techniques that Jenny taught her. I have also recommended Jenny to many of my friends, who have all found her help invaluable.
James
17:38 11 Oct 20
I went to see if Jenny could help me just before we went into lock-down and have since had all of our sessions online through video sessions. I asked about lots of issues that I had and she said that she could try to help with all of them. The main issue for me was a huge lack of confidence at work (which had even been pointed out to me by bosses) and with certain women that I liked. These resulted in difficulties which were both of verbal and physical attributes. Now I'd never been to anything like this before, so the first thing for me to realise was that it wasn't like anything you see in the movies (at least not with Jenny anyway). It isn't one session and you're fixed, and you don't have a stopwatch being swung in front of you to get you into a trance state either. It's much more about concentrating on the positives, learning about what's actually happening to your brain in those moments, and then gradually changing your thought processes over time to make things clearer. It feels a little unusual, but isn't weird, and the bedtime audio becomes very relaxing and satisfying, even if I did get the giggles the first few times. I can't say that I wasn't skeptical or even that I wasn't totally convinced that it was doing anything sometimes, but over time it's left a sort of calmness and confidence to deal with situations better, to the extent that I'm doing things that I never ever thought I'd be confident enough to do before, and not constantly looking over my shoulder worried what everyone else's opinions will be. But to counter that, I also haven't changed who I am, which was also a big fear, so I'm only saying and doing what I wished I could've done in the past, rather than doing things which are totally out of my character. It's a boost rather than a rip out the old and bring in the new. Don't get me wrong, this isn't some sort of miracle cure, because you do have to work at it as well, but I guess it's a way to try to help me guide myself with any problems I face in the future too.I've had other help too, but Jenny has been instrumental to the change and guided me and picked up on and dealt with any other issues along the way. I really believe she could help many people with loads of different problems, but you just need to be open to letting her in to help you. As a further testament, I've just had the dreaded virus and been locked away isolating again, and despite being knocked about by it a bit, I still feel confident that the changes Jenny instigated are still there to help in lifes ups and downs, so it's not just a quick short term fix either! Thanks again Jenny!
claire K.
19:53 23 Sep 20
I have found seeing Jenny for hypnotherapy the most effective theraputic practice I have tried. The way I see it, in this crazy world the ones with the mental health problems are the ones who don't think they have a mental health problem. I happy to accept that need all the help I can get to stay sane and positive. I live an hour from Stafford and that Jenny can offer her services zoom is wonderful for me. Finding the time to travel an hour there and an hour home was a bit stressful, not to mention the carbon cost of driving, whereas being able to have hypnotherapy in the comfort of my own home has made it much more accessible whilst still being just as effective. Thanks Jenny
barbara G.
10:49 17 Sep 20
I found Jenny to be a most professional and highly knowledgeable practitioner. She dealt with my issue, and I have no hesitation in recommending her.Peter Gold.
Vickie L.
15:58 02 Jul 20
I took my daughter to see Jenny as she was absolutely petrified of dogs and her nan had recently got a dog so this was causing some real issues. We had a consultation with Jenny and I straight away felt at ease and really happy to proceed with the sessions. Unfortunately we then had lockdown but Jenny suggested we try the sessions via zoom and gave us a hypnotherapy mp3 to start listening too to get ready. The sessions were fab and my daughter felt really at ease with Jenny. The sessions really paid off and my daughter is so confident around dogs which is amazing considering she would burst in to tears at the mere sight of one. Only downside is that she now wants us to have a dog. I would highly recommend Jenny, I found her to be really engaging with both myself and my daughter. She was very clear about how she could help and extremely positive about the process and how it could benefit us. 5 star service from start to finish.
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Understanding Childbirth

a woman clutches her pregnancy bump

Childbirth is a natural process that unfolds in three distinct stages. The first stage, known as labour, has two phases: the latent phase, where contractions are irregular and spaced more than 5 minutes apart, and the active phase, when contractions become more regular and intense. During this time, the contractions help to thin and open the cervix while moving the baby into the birth canal. For first-time mothers, this stage can take 8 to 18 hours, while for those who have given birth before, it typically lasts up to 12 hours.

Once the cervix is fully dilated to around 10 cm, the second stage begins. This is the phase where the baby is delivered, and it continues until the baby is born.

The third and final stage involves the contraction of the womb and the delivery of the placenta.

Hypnobirthing techniques, including hypnotherapy, can be especially beneficial during the first stage of labour, helping you stay calm, relaxed, and in control as your body works through each phase.

Natural Ways to Help With Childbirth

Preparing for childbirth can feel overwhelming, but there are several natural ways to support your body through the process. Understanding your options and staying calm can make a big difference in your labour experience. Here are some natural methods that can help make childbirth more manageable and comfortable:

  • Attend a childbirth class – learning about the stages of labour can ease anxiety and help you feel more in control.
  • Engage in regular exercise during pregnancy – physically active mums often experience shorter labours and require less medical intervention.
  • Ensure you have a supportive birth partner who knows how to help. A soothing massage on your shoulders, neck, or lower back can reduce pain.
  • Take a warm bath or shower to relax your muscles and boost oxytocin levels, which can raise your pain threshold.
  • Keep light, easy-to-digest snacks on hand to maintain energy before heading to the hospital. Avoid fatty foods that can interfere with labour.
  • Distract yourself with a walk or a good book before leaving for the hospital, and take along a relaxation track or music to stay calm.
  • Drink plenty of water to stay hydrated and energised during labour.
  • Keep moving for as long as possible – this encourages the baby’s head to press on the cervix, speeding up dilation.
  • Focus on deep breathing during contractions to help your body relax.
  • Be open to medication if you feel you need it.
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Hypnotherapy can be a powerful tool to help make childbirth a more positive experience. By using relaxation techniques and focused breathing, it can help you manage the physical and emotional challenges of labour. Here are some ways hypnotherapy can assist:

  • Help you to relax throughout labour, allowing your body to work more efficiently.
  • Reduce physical pain by calming your nervous system and lowering stress levels.
  • Use less pain medication, as hypnotherapy can raise your pain threshold and increase your confidence in your body’s abilities.
  • Remain more focused during labour, helping you stay in control of your thoughts and emotions.
  • Process previous trauma that might impact your childbirth experience, such as past difficult births or medical interventions.
  • Address a fear of pregnancy and delivery, turning apprehension into empowerment.
  • Reduce stress and anxiety, which can promote a smoother, more comfortable birth.
  • Lift low mood and depression, supporting your emotional wellbeing during pregnancy and birth.
  • Address a needle phobia, which can reduce anxiety about potential medical interventions.
  • There were 605,479 live births in England and Wales in 2022.
  • Hypnobirthing is becoming more popular as mum’s prioritise their mental health with an increase of 169%. The Hypnotherapy Directory saw an increase in searches for hypnobirthing services across their membership during lockdown.

Hypnobirthing was a phrase coined by Marie Mongan for a process initially developed by her. It is the process of hypnotherapy sessions for mums-to-be, while also teaching them self-hypnosis and educating them about the birthing process. Combined, these can help mothers manage the birth of their baby more easily.

The benefits of hypnobirthing include a more positive experience for the mother during both pregnancy and childbirth. It also contributes to a greater sense of well being during the period before and after the delivery of a baby.

Hypnotherapy can help alleviate any anxiety about the coming birth. It can also help to rid of any past birth traumas that the mother has experienced. Women are less likely to use pain relief during the birthing process. Understanding the birth processes gives women confidence and trust in their bodies, while the hypnosis techniques help them to remain focused and in control.

In line with the birthing process, there are two phases to the hypnobirthing process: preparation and delivery. The preparation phase takes approximately 4 hypnotherapy sessions to reassure the mother – and the father too, if he wishes – about the coming birth. If you plan on using another person as your birthing partner, then they are usually welcome too. During these sessions, the mother will gain an understanding of the birthing process and what is likely to occur during delivery and birth. She will start to use hypnosis during the sessions and be helped to learn self-hypnosis to use during the birth. Some hypnotherapists will give the mother some personalised MP3 downloads to help her access a trance state more quickly.

When you are in a trance state, you will be in a state of focused attention. Different brain waves become more prevalent and you will likely be able to see things from a different perspective, altering your stress levels.  The change in brain waves will also make it easier for you to take on new ideas and new ways of thinking. Most hypnotherapists use an element of talking therapy these days and this supports the trance session by helping you to evaluate your current behaviour and the way you think.

It is always important to contact your GP or midwife as they may be able to offer you free antenatal classes. Some of these contain information about hypnobirthing.

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Hypnobirthing and Hypnotherapy FAQs

The number of sessions you will need for hypnobirthing will vary from person to person. If it is quite straightforward and there are no other anxieties, then 4 sessions after the initial consultation should be sufficient. If you have other anxieties present around past trauma, or a phobia of needles for example, then it is likely you’ll be looking at around 8-10 sessions. Another factor to consider is the level of your commitment. You might be expected to listen to an MP3 download every night or to perform some other task between sessions. You will see results much more quickly if you do the things your hypnotherapist suggests.

The cost of hypnotherapy for hypnobirthing can vary from one therapist to another. This will depend on your location and the qualifications and experience your hypnotherapist has. To give you a rough guide prices can vary from £40- £150 per hour.

Even before lockdown many hypnotherapists were running online hypnotherapy sessions for hypnobirthing. The good news is that there is now evidence to support the effectiveness of online hypnotherapy sessions for a range of conditions. All you would need to take part in an online hypnotherapy session would be a laptop, tablet or smartphone, access to the internet and somewhere quiet where you can relax.

Some NHS areas offer antenatal classes that incorporate some hypnobirthing. Unfortunately, you will probably be unable to access hypnobirthing on a one-to-one basis through the NHS. This is despite the British Medical Association’s assertion, in their submission of evidence to the House of Lords Select Committee on Science and Technology, that ‘Hypnotherapy and Counselling may be considered as orthodox treatments’. Your GP might suggest hypnobirthing on a one-to-one basis as an option, but it will be up to you to source and fund your treatment.

Hypnobirthing teaches self-hypnosis to the mum to be while also helping her to understand what will happen in the birthing process. However, it can be difficult to achieve on your own and therefore finding a qualified hypnotherapist to help you initially can be the best solution. Once you have experienced going into a trance state a few times with their help, you will find it much easier to go into that same state on your own. It is worth pointing out that the counselling or psychotherapy element of the hypnotherapy session would be missing from any self-help approach and research has suggested that hypnosis is more effective alongside it.

The side effects from hypnobirthing are generally positive. However, you might feel very dozy when coming out of a trance state, but a walk in the fresh air will soon bring you back to normal. This is because the trance state is a natural state that we all go into everyday whenever we are focusing on something and lose awareness of the outside world, we are in a trance state.

Hypnotherapy is not dangerous as the trance state is perfectly natural. We might go into a trance state when we’re reading a book, playing a video game or watching TV. However, hypnotherapy is not suitable for you if you suffer from hallucinations or are in psychosis. It is also not advisable to be hypnotised while under the influence of alcohol or recreational drugs.

Where can I find the best hypnotherapist?

Start out with the basics, Search for “hypnobirthing” in Google or Bing. The results will contain a map with local hypnotherapy businesses. Start looking through their reviews either in the search engine or on their social (Facebook) pages.

The best hypnotherapists will be registered with a professional association and  with organisations that are accredited by the professional standards authority. There are only two in the UK and they are the Complementary and Natural Healthcare Council (CNHC) and the National Hypnotherapy Society.

Clinical Hypnotherapy in Stafford

Jenny has more than 10 years experience in working with people struggling with conception, pregnancy & birth in Stafford and further afield through face-to-face sessions and online support.